Never settle for anything less than tummy laughs

Throughout life we're taught to "settle". We settle into our new schools, new environments and new homes which is all necessary but we're also subconsciously taught to settle for what we get as opposed to getting the absolute best we know we can get.  What does this refer to? It refers to people, places and even...

“You just know”

We all know of the famous "samoosa runs" that almost every 20+ female and male experiences. And for those who don't know, a samoosa run is the meeting of two families and introducing of two people whom the family sees as a potential match for marriage. It's an interesting process, one that I myself always...

Jumping back

2017 has been a crazy beautiful journey and I'd like to just jump back a few months to the start of the year. It was a bumpy yet stunning start in the mother city, Cape Town (everyone's favorite) and lots of difficult decisions to be made. One of the things I've learned this year is...

Hi there beautiful souls ❤️ It's been a beautifully busy 2017 which hasn't allowed me time to publish here. My intention when I'd started publishing here was to share my thoughts, feelings and experiences in hope of inspiring others or touching you in even the littlest of ways and giving you hope. Yes, sometimes it's...

Are you ready for her?

"She thought she was strong until you came along only to break her into a million little pieces. You were coward and never sorry unless she pointed it out first but she forgave you nonetheless. She realized that you were meant to be her test and her biggest lesson. She forgave you and she thanked...

Bye-bye bad thoughts; good riddance sins!

"Ward off your thoughts for they may become a desire, then fight it otherwise it will become a determination and if you do not stop it will become an action and if you do not change it with an alternative (good deed) it will become a habit and you will never be able to change...

Being “Emotionless” is coward!

ALEXITHYMIA - a personality construct characterised by the subclinical inability to identify and describe emotions in the self. The core characteristics are marked dysfunction in emotional awareness, social attachment and interpersonal relating. Whilst there is no judgement in having pyschological problems as long as one makes the effort to work through them, I would stand firm...

xoxo – Gossip Girl.

Gossip girl, without the plotting, scheming, planning and backstabbing has quite the love story and lessons for one who watches the entire 6 seasons that GG has to offer. GG has been one of the series that helps me through those little phases and moments that push me into believing the worst of relationships. People...

Life is beautiful.

You do not need what you once thought you did. Looking back isn't going to change anything and neither is looking forward. It's all about enjoying the moment - the here and now - that takes away the pain of the past and opens the way for a better future.   Look back just long...

Chand ki raat – a moonlit night

Rain, clouds, storms. With all the crazy weather we've been experiencing as off late, for the slightest while I had actually almost forgotten what a grand beauty shines down on me from high above. I'd almost forgotten about the mesmerizing effect that the earth's night bulb has.  A glance up at the sky tonight was...